
Yesterday the 12th of August Brandon and I celebrated our 8th anniversary. We had some friends that were married the week before us, and that we haven't seen in 5 years come down from Seattle to celebrate with us. We went to San Francisco this weekend to celebrate. We had a great time and really enjoyed our weekend together. Pictures will be in the next post.
I really want to share with my husband how much I love him so I have picked out 8 reasons why he is the greatest man I know. It was hard to only pick 8 but I tried :).
(FYI these are in no particular order and as a disclaimer if you do not like sappy romantic love letters you might want to consider skipping this post!)
#8-FATHERHOOD
Those that know Brandon or his family know that he has one younger sister Emmalee and no other family in this area. I say that to tell you that Brandon was rarely around babies when he was younger. When we had Blythe it was an eye opening experience for him having never had much exposure in his younger years. To see him now with our 3 kids you would never know! It is as if he was surrounded by kids his entire life. He is the BEST dad and is always so helpful with our kids. He makes sure they know how special and capable they are and how much their Heavenly Father loves them. He is just the kind of dad I always knew he would be and I love him for the impact he has on Blythe, Eli and Tess.
#7-TESTIMONY
It was always important to me to marry a returned missionary with a strong testimony. Brandon definitely filled that requirement. When we were dating we ran into a couple at temple square who were non-members. It was so wonderful to share our testimonies together and get a glimpse of what Brandon was like as a missionary. He ran across the street and quickly bought some LDS literature and had it wrapped for our new friends Susan and Andrew. We will never know what happened to them but I know that seeing Brandon that day gave me some insight into the depth of his testimony for which I will always be grateful.
#6-COMMUNICATION
One of the reasons that I think B and I have such a great relationship is because we talk about everything. There is rarely anything that comes up that we haven't discussed ahead of time. We are best friends and really love to be together. I know that as a result of our constant communication our relationship remains strong and our love deepens year after year.
#5-LOVE OF TRAVEL
When B and I got engaged I gave up a trip to the BYU Jerusalem center to stay with him in Utah and plan the wedding. It was sad for me but B always promised me that we would travel the world together. He is definitely keeping his promise. We have been to Hawaii several times and this year had the chance to go to Europe, visit several countries and tour Brandon's mission in Italy. It was amazing and a dream come true for both of us. I know that it is only the beginning of the travel journal we write as the years go on.
#4-DETERMINATION
One of the things my mom taught me was that it wasn't important to seek after someone who had alot of money, but to seek for someone who was driven for the best this life has to offer. When I met Brandon he was working the night shift at a call center trying to get through school and figure out what he wanted to do. I saw in him such motivation that I knew that he would always work as hard as he could to provide for our family. Through the years I have seen that I was more than right. Brandon has such a drive to make sure that our family is happy and well taken care of. He works hard so we can play hard and make fun family memories together.
#3-GENUINE
If you know Brandon well you know how genuine he is. With him you get what you get and it is always the real deal-take it or leave it! With that genuine heart comes a great capacity for love and service. Brandon gives of himself freely and willingly and looks for quiet opportunities to help others. He is never showy or attention seeking, he has a quiet sense of compassion and charity. I love that he will do the right thing even if no one notices.
#2-FUN
Brandon is one of the most fun people that I know. Truly he is always looking for an adventure and because of that there is rarely a dull moment in the Hardy Home. The kids are I circle around Brando like moths to a flame and love to be showered with his attention and affection.
#1-LOVE
I still remember him pacing outside the Manti Temple waiting for me to arrive. He looked so handsome and nervous and I couldn't wait to be his wife. I love him him because he chose me. I love him because he took me to the house of the Lord and we were sealed together for eternity.
Brandon, I can honestly say eternity is not long enough! You are my partner in everything and I thank the good lord for you everyday. How I was blessed enough to spend this earthly life with you I will never know but I know that everyday with you by my side is heavenly!
Happy 8th baby!